This author has produced a totally satisfying book out of experiences all women can relate to on some level. Told with unusual candor and delightful humor, the sad parts are pure and the funny parts clear. Lucinda Shirley's search for understanding her life and, finally, establishing it on terms that work for her best self is a story dotted with insights into what makes us who we are. She delved and faced the unhappy and problematic, all the while celebrating the joy to be found all around. Her look at married vs. single acquaintances exposes the breadth of choices and decisions women make and why. Lovely, appropriately themed poetry accessorizes each step - a talent that needs its own showcase. If you've never examined yourself and your life in a deep way, you'll find yourself doing it while reading this book. Consider it a layman's guide and Ms. Shirley's gift. I say "thanks"!
